Reasons not to pray: 5

Reason 5: loss of control. Prayer requires me to give myself into the hands of the Other, but I’d much rather be self-determining.

Richard Rohr says that there are five difficult messages we need to learn:

  1. Life is hard.
  2. You are going to die.
  3. You are not that important.
  4. You are not in control.
  5. Your life is not about you.

Do I dare to give up this much sense of self and agency?

Of course, there is the potential for great comfort and relief in this: I can relax my grip on what I (fondly, but mistakenly) think of as ‘my’ life.

… it does not really matter what we understand about ourselves or our context so long as we put ourselves in God’s hands. … God coming to us where we are; we surrendering in total trust from where we are . . . it is simple enough.

Ruth Burrows: Guidelines for Mystical Prayer, p.44

What God is waiting for is not a right conclusion about a matter but our suppleness in falling into his hands for him to work in us.

Benedicta Ward: Discernment: A Rare Bird

Previously in series: Reasons not to pray: 4.

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